There Are No Perks of Being a Wallflower
Overall I think that the Perks of Being
a Wallflower was a good read. I think that Chbosky did a good job at writing in
a way that made the text feel current and relatable to YA readers. In the
beginning of the story I had a lot of questions because Charlie seemed to keep a
lot hidden from readers. He even started off in the beginning by saying, “…then
you might figure out who I am, and I really don’t want you to do that” (pg.2).
However as the story progressed, some of the questions that I had were answered
later on in the story. I feel that this story brings about a lot of personal
connections to YA readers. For example, the way that in the beginning of the
story Charlie and his sister seem to have a distant relationship and aren’t
really close, but later on, when she has to go to the clinic, they portray that
brotherly and sisterly love that shows they’ll always have each others’ back in
the end. I think this is the same way that some youth may be with their
siblings in today’s society. They aren’t affectionate with siblings for whatever
the reason may be, but when it comes down to it, they’ll always be by their
side. After everything with the clinic was over Charlie mentioned how his
sister had thanked him for that day and for not letting her down (pg.121). Chbosky
also did a good job at tying the title of the story into the book. Readers
actually see how Charlie is a wallflower. It seems as though everyone assumes
he’s the person who is just “there” and can trust him with their secrets. For
example, when Charlie saw Patrick and Brad kissing for the first time, Patrick
stated, “You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand”
(37). They trusted him to be a
wallflower. Then again on page 17, when Charlie caught his father crying in the
kitchen alone after the final episode of MASH, his father told him, “This is
our little secret, okay champ?” Charlie is once again being held accountable
for a secret that he has to act as though he was only there for and can’t say a
word. Overall, I think Chbosky’s whole purpose however was to prove to YA
readers that there are however no perks of being a wallflower. I think he would
want YA readers to know that it’s ok not to be a wallflower, and sometimes it’s
important to tell someone what’s going on. When Sam tells Charlie on page 200, “It’s
great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when
someone doesn’t need a shoulder,” I think that was an important statement
because when someone doesn’t need a shoulder or wallflower, they may need
somebody, or a hug, or help. We learn that Charlie has been holding back how he
was raped by his Aunt Helen, and held it in for so many years, just hurting mentally,
but when his family steps in and is there for him, he says everything will be
okay.
I think what Sam tells Charlie at the end is so important, too. It feels like Charlie is this kind, loving observer and we learn to love him for that, but Sam kind of twists it at the end by telling Charlie that people don't necessarily always want someone to just quietly be there-- action is important and sometimes you have to go after what you want instead of just doing what you think everyone else wants you to do.
ReplyDeleteI am glad that you clearly defined what being a wallflower is. Charlie is very observant and introverted and it is important for him to learn to speak up for himself. Sam was right when she basically said that he needed to start living his life for himself and not just doing what everyone else wants to do. A person can hold only so many secrets and things inside before they finally snap.
ReplyDeleteI really love that you challenged the title and came to the conclusion that maybe the "perks" of being a wallflower aren't worth it.
ReplyDeleteOne of the important themes of the book is "participating", which Charlie has a problem with. I think this directly relates to Charlie's "wallflowerness."