Alan Ruff - Percieved Paternalism in Caramelo
"Caramelo” by
Sandra Cisneros is the story of the Reyes family over three generations and the
duality that exists within their lives and between the borders of the United
States and Mexico. Cisneros uses the
youngest daughter of the family, Celaya, to tell the stories of her family
mostly through her point of view. This
is done very effectively in Part One of the novel as we learn about each of the
different family members through Cisneros’ great use of description. Through Celaya, Cisneros brings us into the
lives of the major characters. She draws
a stark contrast between the two worlds that she moves through each of
them. When all three of the brothers and
their families are traveling to Mexico together, Celaya embraces each of the
five senses to bring the reader into this new and unfamiliar setting. Cisneros’ use of descriptive language reads as
poetry in some places in the novel. My
favorite example of this is when Soledad remembers her first kiss with Narciso
on page 107. “… like a sunflower
following the sun, her body instinctively turned itself toward his. … Oh, the body, that tattler, revealed itself in
all its honesty. Hers, a hunger. His a hunger too … but of another kind.’
Cisneros weaves the theme of
Paternalism throughout Celaya’s tale and parallels it with the Mexican culture
of yesterday, and overall society of today as well. Women’s strength and importance are
diminished throughout the story. As
Celaya tells her story, we learn of the oppression that all of the female role
models in her life have experienced. We
see this first when Celaya is forbidden by Awful Grandmother to play with the
Indian girl with the caramel skin. Later
we learn that the Awful Grandmother was treated similarly by her future
Mother-in-law. This theme of paternalism
is summed up in the sentence, “There is nothing Mexican men revere more than
their mamas; they are the most devoted of sons, perhaps because their mamas are
the most devoted of mamas … when it comes to their boys.”
However, this begs the question
of who is really in control of the families?
We are told that it is the men, and specifically the fathers who are in
charge. But it is the female characters
throughout the story who control and dominate everyone, especially the men,
around them. Regina is the “breadwinner”
of her house and even gains a role of greater influence within her community
because of her skills while Eleuterio is portrayed as submissive and eventually
silenced by his medical condition. Part
one of the story ends with Celaya’s father being forced to choose between his
wife and his mother. But we assume his
position of power because he gets to choose.
What he is actually choosing is which woman he will allow himself to be
domineered by. Each of the three sons of
Awful Grandmother have married women whom they love, admire, and devote
themselves to. Cisneros would argue that
the women are respected because of their role of motherhood and that once their
usefulness in this role has diminished, so does their power. An example of this is in chapter 70, “Men no
longer looked at her, society no longer gave her much importance after her role
of mothering was over (pg 347).” I
question which action is the initial cause and which is the consequence?
I've never thought of Incencio having to choose between his mother and wife as being based on domineering; although I can see why you say that because the roles in this novel are somewhat reversed and so is what we expect from the characters.
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