The Curious Incident
Throughout
this course we have discussed what effects adolescents when they are going
through this stage of life. In the novel, “the curious incident of the dog in the
night-time,” we are introduced to the Christopher a young boy that has autism.
He is extremely intelligent and excels in anything that makes logical sense.
While he is a bright child, he struggles understanding facial expressions, and
social cues because of his condition. He also has things he gets focused on
quite often, doesn’t like to be touched, stays away from strangers, and likes
to stick to a schedule. In this novel however we see parents that don’t seem to
be able to handle a child that has autism such as Christopher. This baffles the
audience because every adolescent needs a parent to be their for them, and
Christopher needs it just the same if not more because of his condition.
As we get towards the middle of the book, we start to see
that Christopher’s father isn’t what he has put on to be around everyone else.
Once he figures out that his son has been talking to Ms. Shea about the past,
he suddenly loses it on Christopher. Here it states, “Holy fucking Jesus,
Christopher. How stupid are you?” (81) This sentence that comes out of his fathers’
mouth has so much power because he calls him stupid, and because he is taking his
own mistakes out on his son. This sentence holds so much weight is because his
own father knows his son has a condition but calls him stupid anyways. This
could negatively effect Christopher because maybe he doesn’t understand that
his dad is just saying this out of anger but instead holds on to that one
little word for the rest of this life. Always questioning that maybe he isn’t
smart because his own dad told him that so long ago. Another example of how his
father treats him poorly is when he gets so angry, he grabs Christopher super
hard on his arm, which then causes Christopher to lash out. Here it states, “But
father interrupted me and grabbed hold of my arm really hard. Father had never
grabbed hold of me like them before” (82). Here we can see that his father has
now taken his angry and put it on to his son. This confuses Christopher and
even brings back negative memories of his mother hitting him when she was in
the picture. This is never goof for any child but again for Christopher he
doesn’t completely understand what is going on and might hold on to like he did
when his mother hit him as well.
Another example of his parents not being able to handle a
child with autism is when his mother just doesn’t support him in his dreams.
Here it says, “I don’t know whether that’s going to be possible” (202). Here we
see his mother basically tell her son he can’t pass the math A exam, even
though Christopher is super excited about it because he knows he can pass it.
It shows us that his mother doesn’t really know Christopher at all and assumes
that because he has Autism, he wouldn’t be able to do it, which just isn’t true.
She needs to be there to support her child in anything he does because it will make,
he always feels like he has someone in his corner.
Overall, we can see that both of Christopher’s parents don’t
seem to be able to handle a child that has Autism because he needs them to be there
for him no matter what. Also, they need to both support him because without that
parent support it will make it even harder for him over time.
Carter,
ReplyDeleteI agree in your concluding statement that neither of Christopher's parents are truly fit to care for him. While the novel was difficult for me to get into, the part that drew me in the most was the maltreatment from his parents, simply because I continued to read in hopes of either of his parents redeeming themselves for the damage they caused Christopher. There are times when Christopher, as the narrator, annoyed me but I was almost always empathetic towards him due to the relationship with his parents.
I love your analysis of the relationship between Christopher and his parents. I completely agree with you--his parents are not fit to parent him. Any child with ASD should never be abused or treated as though they are a burden. I understand that it can be a challenge to parent children with ASD, and it takes so much patience, but that is no excuse to lash out. I think it begs the question of how far a child with ASD can go in life when they are constantly being put down and pushed aside. Then again, Christopher did make an A on his math test!
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