How Divorce Affects Christopher in Curious Incident

Divorce plays a major role for Christopher in Curious Incident. Parenting a child with Autism seems tough for two parents working together, but Christopher's father has to parent by himself after the mom leaves for London. I think the fact that the mom gets burned out by the stress of raising a child with Autism shows just how tough it can be. One thing I have learned from the book and other research in class is that parents must show patience in these situations. Christopher is hard to deal with at times throughout the book, but his father tries to understand why is he is acting the way he is and work with him.

It was very sad to see Christopher not understand the dynamic at play when his father lied about his mom's death. Even though it wasn't a great decision, the father probably didn't know how Christopher would take the news of his mom leaving. He knew he wouldn't fully understand it, but it was tough to read the latter part of the book when the father was unable to win back his son's trust initially. I was glad that Christopher was able to kind of start trusting his father again by the ending.

My parents divorced when I was a child, so I connected with that aspect a little. I remember my mom and dad both being stressed out while they were raising me and my brother as single parents, so I think it's a challenging situation for any adult in that situation. When you add in Christopher's Autism, it really makes you respect the sacrifices his father makes in the book. One question I had when I was reading was wondering why there was so much cussing in the dialogue. Christopher's father curses at him a lot, and I wondered how that would affect a child with Autism. I think the purpose was to show how stressed out his father can get, but I still thought the amount of cursing was a little excessive.

The author does a pretty good job at portraying adolescence in this book, despite the fact that the circumstances aren't normal. Christopher has to discover himself in a way along his journey to London. He is put into a lot of uncomfortable situations, but he shows a lot of courage in overcoming those obstacles. He stays determined, and I think the reader can see that transformation by the end of the book. On page 221, Christopher says "And then I will get a First Class Honors degree and I will become a scientist. And I know I can do this because I went to London on my own, and because I solved the mystery of Who Killed Wellington". He is able to overcome some of his fears, and this gives him a new outlook on his own identity for things he can accomplish. 

I really liked this book. The text was sometimes hard to read whenever Christopher would go off on tangents about random tidbits of information, but showing his thinking process also helped to better understand his character. This was the first book I had read with an Autistic character, so it was an interesting read for me. I think I would consider teaching using this text, because I think it would help students to better understand how things work inside the head of someone with Autism.

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